Sunday, June 24, 2007

Life Cycle Psychology


What does "life cycle psychology" mean? Which are the human life stages?
The psychology of life cycle is a branch of psychology that tries to relate the place where an individual is in the course of his/her life with the kind of issues that the person is facing and with the kind of resources s/he will have available to face those issues. And, eventually, the kind of disturbance s/he could develop in case s/he fails to cope successfully with those issues.

From a theoretical point of view, the concept of stages of life comes from the thinking of developmental scientists.

This concept not only involves the idea that there are different phases in life, but emphasizes the belief that any phase builds upon the previous ones.

In the same way a boy can't learn how to divide or multiply without first knowing how to add or subtract, the fact of forming adult relationships outside of the family of origin is problematic for a person who never had acceptable relationships at home.

When understood in this manner, the concept of stages of life is a very powerful one.

For instance, this means that, in diagnosing a patient's disturbance, the life cycle psychologist will attempt to determine at what stage the individual failed to meet the task of that phase of life. The person's poor performance in the stages that follow can then be understood in terms of the lack of the required preparation for that stage.

Thus life cycle psychology is in favour of using therapy as an attempt to correct the deficits created by the unsuccessful completion of a previous stage in life.

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Friday, June 22, 2007

Good lessons for life

21 Lessons

ONE: Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO: Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE: Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

FOUR: When you say, "I love you," mean it.

FIVE: When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye.

SIX: Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN: Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT: Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

NINE: Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

TEN: In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

ELEVEN: Don't judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE: Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN: When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"

FOURTEEN: Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

FIFTEEN: Say "God bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.

SIXTEEN: When you lose, don't lose the lesson .

SEVENTEEN: Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.

EIGHTEEN: Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

NINETEEN: When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

TWENTY: Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

TWENTY-ONE: Spend some time alone.